Ruth M. Azbell-Hightower

Ruth M. Azbell-Hightower, a woman of enduring grace and incomparable kindness, was called to her eternal rest on May 1, 2025, at the age of 93. Born on March 11, 1932, Ruth led a life rich in service, love, and unfaltering dedication to her family and friends.

Ruth's professional journey began after her graduation from the LHS class of 1950 and the Office Training School of Columbus. She devoted an impressive 33 years of her life to City Loan Services as an assistant manager, where her warmth and genuine nature made every interaction special. Renowned for treating every individual as a dear friend, she exemplified the true essence of a lady, embodying class and integrity in all her endeavors.

Ruth was not only a devoted professional but also a cherished member of the Lancaster community, contributing her time and talent to numerous organizations. She was an active participant in the Lancaster United Brethren Church, where she was a stalwart member of the Christian Builders Sunday School Class. Her leadership shone through her roles as a former board member and chairperson of Communion and Praise and the Celebration Choir. Ruth was also a proud member of the Anchorettes and the Sigma Phi Gamma Sorority, where her spirit of camaraderie and fellowship resonated deeply.

At home, Ruth's greatest pride came from her beloved family, which she cherished above all else. She is survived by her daughter-in-law, Stephanie Azbell; grandchildren, Mindi (Chad) Balser, Nicholas (Kerri) Azbell, and Rusty (Molly) Azbell; and great-grandchildren, Bailey Nelson, Avery Marie, Jude, Aimee, Brandyn, Caspian, Aiden Michael, and Hope Elizabeth. Additionally, she delighted in being a great-great-grandmother to Rhett Nelson and twins Asher and Quill. Ruth's sisters, Irene Congrove Mecchi and Nita Paxton, along with her brother and sister-in-law, Bill and Leslie Congrove, remain to carry forth the legacy of her love, alongside numerous nieces and nephews.

Ruth is now reunited in spirit with her late husband, Grover “Rusty” Nelson Azbell, with whom she shared an extraordinary bond for 56½ years before his passing in 2008. She was also preceded in death by her son, Michael Azbell, her parents Albert and Evamae “Mimi” Stoughton Congrove, her niece Julianne Keller, and beloved in-laws Ronald K. Paxton, Joseph and Grace Azbell, and Peter J. Mecchi Sr.

Ruth M. Azbell-Hightower will be remembered not only for her elegance but for the quiet strength and laughter she brought into the lives of all who had the pleasure of knowing her. Her home was a sanctuary filled with love, laughter, and floral arrangements that mirrored her joy for life. The memories held dear by her family, particularly those cherished moments with her sister Nita, paint a portrait of a life well-lived, underscored by an unwavering devotion to family and a lasting impact on her community.

Visitation will be held on May 5, 2025, at The Frank E. Smith Funeral Home in Lancaster, OH, from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM and later from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM. A funeral service will take place on May 6, 2025, at the Lancaster United Brethren Church, beginning at 10:30 AM, where friends and loved ones will gather to celebrate her remarkable life. Entombment will follow the service at Fairview Cemetery in Rockbridge. Ruth’s spirit will continue to inspire those who were fortunate to bask in the glow of her warmth and generosity.